It is with great sadness that I write today. A friend in Christina Lake lost her long battle with cancer this past week. Although I was not as close to Judy as many of my friends were, I knew her well enough to know that she was a wonderful mother and wife, and a true and loyal friend. I am sorry that I am not at the Lake right now to share in the grief that is being felt by so many. But here in Victoria, I grieve for her in my own way. I admired Judy for her strength, courage, bravery and determination in her fight against this devastating disease.
Judy's battle started about 6 years ago with breast cancer. After the treatment process (many chemo treatments) and a long recovery, it seemed that she had it beat. However, last year the cancer returned. The fear of most cancer patients had been realized. The cancer had metastasized to other parts of her body. This past year she fought valiantly to overcome her disease. She passed peacefully on Feb 23rd.
Just starting this process and battle myself, I cannot even begin to understand what she has gone through. I know the toll it has taken on me, Neil, my family, and those close to me in my four months of tests, surgeries, and diagnosis. It is an emotional, psychological, and physical roller coaster. Fear, hope, empathy (for anyone that has gone through this, either themselves or watching a loved one go through it), anger, frustration, and resignation are just a few of the emotions I have experienced. And I am sure there are other stages I have yet to experience.
Now my heart goes out to her family and friends. I can only hope that the grief they feel right now will soon turn to peacefulness and eventually to joy because they had (and in their hearts will continue to have) Judy as such a large and important part of their lives.
As to my own progress, I will post very soon This post I want to be a tribute to Judy, her family and friends, and all those who have had cancer affect their lives.
Dear Judy, I wish you peace and happiness on this next journey of life. For truly, death is just a continuation in the process of life.
Dana
Your heart is large and loving Dana...you have written a wonderful tribute to your friend, Judy.
ReplyDeleteWe have all exoerienced the emotions you mentioned, and all are because of our love for you.
Patty
Very sorry for your loss, Dana.
ReplyDeleteDana, what a beautiful tribute to Judy. You now have another Angel watching over you. I pray that everything is going as well as possible for you. If you ever just feel like talking please call collect anytime, would love to hear from you. The sun is bright and warm here today, feels like spring is coming soon & bright days for all. Miss you & Love you lots. MK
ReplyDeleteHi, dear Dana
ReplyDeleteMy prayers and sympathy in the death of your dear friend. How very hard for everyone.
I am so looking forward to seeing you the week I am in Vancouver. I'll contact Marge to make arrangements convenient for her too.
Much love,
Kay